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This would give you guides on how to control your
emotions towards your better-half,
friends, officemates and all the people
around you, especially your "boss".
The rules of practicing
"ugaling langit, ugaling
kaaya-aya" :
#1 Ang naunang magalit ang may karapatang magalit. Pag
naunahan ka na ng galit niya, tumahimik ka na lang muna.
#2 Walang taong nag-aaway mag-isa.
Pag hindi kayo sumagot o pumatol, titigil din daw ang taong
nakikipag- away sa inyo.
#3 Ang taong galit, 'bingi.' If someone is angry, wala raw
pinakikinggan, so, don't try to explain and fight back. Hindi ka
niya iintindihin dahil wala siyang naririnig kundi ang sarili nya.
#4 Ang
taong galit, 'abnoy.' Ayon sa pastor, Biblical daw ito? because
the Lord said when He was crucified,
"Father, patawarin mo sila dahil hindi nila alam ang kanilang
ginagawa." Modern term for these kinds of people are
abnoys, so you better not get angry para huwag kang matawag na abnoy.
You should also know and realize that the persons
who make your day bad are jewel, because you need them for you to
mature. Hangga't andyan daw sila at kinaiinisan mo, ibig sabihin,
immature ka pa. God will not take away those people; it's
for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll
know na mature ka na pag dumating
'yung time na hindi ka na naiinis sa mga taong ito because
you have learned to accept them and to have patience with them.
#5 Finally, the best part of this is to tell yourself na,
because of this
person, "I will grow
mature," and that DAHIL SA CONTRIBUTION NIYA SA MATURITY MO, KUKUNIN DIN SYA NI LORD.
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