Social media, isang komunidad sa loob ng cyberspace. Dito
pwede kang makilala, pwede kang sumikat, pwede kang maging maganda, pwede ka
ding kumita at marami pang iba. Marami ding relasyon ang nabubuo sa mga social
media sites gaya ng facebook at twitter. Dito nag liligawan, dito nasusungkit ang
matamis na OO, dito din nalalaman ng buong mundo na sila na… yun lang pati pag
aaway at pati pag hihiwalay dito din naka broadcast….Meron din nagiging magka
ibigan dito (friends lang) at meron ding nakakakita ng kaaway dito..Sabi nga
“para kang artista sa facebook” kasi halos lahat makikita ka, makikilala
ka…kahit sabihin pa na di mo naman sila kilala..sa social media, pwede kang
sumikat talaga…
Being famous in cyberspace is nearly same in the real world,
dito naka base sa dami ng friends, nag likes at followers and popularity mo
kaya’t pag may nag un friend or nag un follow sau or nag unlike sau masakit
talaga..lalo na pag halos umiikot na ang buhay mo sa social media. (pag
kagising facebook muna at bago matulog facebook pa din…yung iba sa
napapanaginipan pa nga ang facebook e.hehehe)
Pero pano nga pag na unfriend ka? Pero bago ka malungkot
kasi na unfriend ka, try to evaluate yourself bakit nga ba? Below are
some points bakit:
1.
They get annoyed sa mga post mo – minsan puro
selfie pictures mo ang nakikita nila : Kuko, buhok, pilik mata at kung ano
anong parte pa nga katawan mo na ayaw nilang makita pa. Minsan naman puro
hatred mo, galit mo, tsismis mo, inis mo at kung ano ano pang negative na
nakakabigat sa kanila…isipin mo naman minsan nalulungkot na nga yung friend mo
tapos ang post mo mas malungkot,,ayun lalong na depress tuloy . Minsan naman
hindi wholesome ang post mo..some people will like it but majority will not.
Lalo na pag R18 ang content.
You will say, this is my wall and I will post what I
want to post kasi it’s my choice…yes your right pero remember that it’s their
choice also to un friend you..
When you post
something think of this verse ” Finally, brothers, whatever is true,
whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely,
whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything
worthy of praise, think about these things.” –(Philippians 4:8) Make this
your standard when you post something.
2.
They don’t want to see or hear about you –
nangyayari ito pag magkakilala talaga ang dalawa at somewhere along the way may
nangyaring hindi maganda..Sabi nga pag may sugat, at pag sugat ayaw
binubulatlat..hayaan nalang matuyo muna at mag peklat…ito ang masakit but this
is a sad reality of life. Tutoong friends nga naghihiwalay, facebook friends pa
kaya..?
3.
They want to have a fresh start of friends –
yung iba kasi madami ngang friends sa facebook pero din naman sila
magkakakilala talaga, kaya ang ginagawa nila they un friend yung di nila
kilala or di close at tinitira nila yung mga close…kaya pag na unfriend ka..ask
yourself..close ba kami?
There may be more reasons why friends un friend you, yes
masakit pag na unfriend pero din naman siguro hihinto ang buhay mo kahit lahat
ng friend mo sa facebook I unfriend ka…sabi nga it is better to hold on to one
true friend rather than having 1 million unreal friends….
Life will still go on, you will still eat, you will still
lived, you still have to work, you still have to earn, you still have to take care
of yourself with or without those friends and even with or without facebook.
LIFE WILL STILL GO ON….Now if you want to have a friend that will not un friend
you and who will not leave you nor forsake you…in fact He died for you….Turn to
JESUS..He is your ONE AND TRUE FRIEND. Kaya mga kapatid pag na unfriend ka….be
glad as you have Jesus as your One True Friend…andyan lang siya..di ka nya I
unfriend…
“All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.” – John 6:37
“All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.” – John 6:37
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